Letting Go of Who We Were, Embracing Who We Are Becoming
We often look back and wonder why we no longer feel like the version of ourselves we once were. This post explores the power of releasing the past and embracing the woman we are becoming with compassion and clarity.
4/11/20251 min read
As we move through the ever-evolving journey of personal growth, it’s natural to glance backward. We often find ourselves reflecting on who we were two or three years ago — wondering why we don’t quite feel like “her” anymore.
There’s a quiet ache that can come with change. Maybe back then we felt more energized, more in control, or more connected to ourselves. And now? Now we might feel stuck, unsure, or disconnected. We ask ourselves: What happened? How did I lose her?
But here’s the truth — we didn’t lose her. We evolved.
We’re not meant to stay the same. Life has happened. Our roles, responsibilities, and even our bodies have shifted. The gray in our hair, the circles under our eyes, the softness we carry — it all tells a story. A story of growth, resilience, and showing up again and again.
Instead of chasing who we were, what if we asked: What am I truly seeking?
Often, it’s not a return to the past — it’s a longing for self-connection, belonging, and inner peace.
You don’t need to “go back.” You deserve to move forward — with acceptance, compassion, and love for the woman you are right now.
